Meet a Sugar Momma in UK

Here, you’ll know everything about how to find a sugar mummy, how much a sugar mommy will pay you, and how to meet her in the UK. We’ll also talk about the pros and cons of having such a relationship—but that’s not all. Here, you’ll also find many British sugar mommas ready for new relationships: you’ll be able to see their photos and some info to start with; all you need to do to start your interaction is click on the profiles we share on this page!

Now, let’s discuss some basics about the sugar bowl and the role of its female part.

What is a sugar momma?

Before you start searching for a sugar mommy in UK, let’s talk about who a sugar momma actually is. Typically, they are described as mature women in their 40s, 50s, and 60s, who are searching for a hot young man to have some fun with. The relationship between sugar mommas and sugar babies is based on exchanging sex and intimacy for money, gifts, and so on. 

If there is no financial side, it’s not a relationship with a sugar momma, it’s a relationship with a “cougar” (all the same but without any allowance).

Sugar mummy dating in UK: Statistics

• On average, sugar babies in the United States can make around $2,800 per month, according to a 2018 survey. There are no statistics about the situation in the UK but there are two options: it's either the same or slightly worse. If we compare the average wage in the US and the UK we'll see that the difference is pretty significant which may lead you to believe the difference in the average allowance is also quite significant. But the point is, sugar daddies and mommas do not work for an average salary. Like, they often don't work at all.
• The more or less precise number of sugar daddies, mommas, and babies in the UK is unknown. However, we analyzed one of the top sugar dating sites, Seeking, and it turns out that only 6% of the visitors are from the United Kingdom. If we extrapolate this to the overall sugar dating market in the UK (and we see no reason to not do it), we’ll see that around 6% of these sites' audience is British. The most popular sugar dating apps have 10,000,000 monthly visitors and 6% of that number is 600,000. In other words, the number of Brits interested in sugar relationships is comparable to the population of Leicester, Brighton, or Belfast!
• Typically, the age difference in a sugar relationship is around 20 years. The average sugar baby is 25 years old while the average sugar daddy/momma is 48 years old.

How to find a sugar mummy UK

How to get a sugar mummy? Obviously, there are no bars or nightclubs with a bright sign "Sugar Momma UK”, so it’s not that simple—online dating is easier because all those ladies are gathered on one app and waiting for you. But when it comes to real life, some places can be called sugar momma hot spots: 

• High-end nightclubs. Tape, Libertine, Tonteria, etc—these are expensive places with lots of VIP guests, and that's where you should look for a wealthy and successful mature lady.
• Finance events. Real estate and fintech conferences, banking forums, trade shows—you'd be surprised how many single, successful ladies you can meet there. 
• Live music bars where they play covers, especially the ones where they focus on older music (say, music from the 80s).
• Luxury hotels like Intercontinental, the Royal Horseguards, Royal Lancaster, etc. It would also make sense to focus on expensive hotels near Heathrow Airport because you can meet a lot of successful women during their business trips. 

And if you don’t find yourself looking for a sugar momma in the places mentioned, you can always try other events rich people may attend—auctions, charity events, film festivals, yacht shows, etc. Choose whatever suits you, too, because it will be the two of you in a relationship.

How much does a sugar mommy in the UK pay?

There are no official government statistics available on the income of sugar babies in the UK, as you probably understand. The subject is too sensitive, so don't expect any official studies on it. What you can expect here is a rough calculation. 

Thus, as we've already mentioned, sugar babies in the US have a monthly allowance of around $2,800, and that's why we can assume that in the UK, the average allowance is similar to that. We can also say with confidence that the number of male sugar babies is much lower than the number of female SBs, so it makes sense that in such an “elite” niche of this industry, the average allowance may be higher.

What’s more, the answer to this question can’t be simple. You can’t say “It’s always £3,000 or £2,000.” Your allowance depends on a lot of factors, from your communication skills to your appearance, from your location to pure luck. 

Best city to find a sugar momma for sugar babies in the UK

Some experts say that London is the #1 place for it, and it’s true. But it’s not the whole of London City, and it’s definitely not the only place where you can meet a real sugar momma.

• First of all, let us introduce you to the Russel Group of Universities. The chances of meeting American sugar mommas in an Ivy League school are extremely high, so the UK shouldn’t be different in this regard. Oxford, Bristol, London, Birmingham, Nottingham, Leeds—you know what cities we’re talking about.
• Aberdeen. It's the wealthiest city in the UK so technically, the chances of meeting a rich sugar momma there are higher than in London. This is the #1 city in the UK with the most multi-millionaires!
• London (again). More specifically, the Hyatt hotel near Heathrow airport. The restaurant and bar in this hotel are, in our opinion, in the top 5 places in the world where one can meet a successful mature lady interested in a little adventure.

And we would also like to mention the worst cities for potential sugar babies—and it's deeper than just "it's Burnley because it's cheap and poor." First of all, Burnley isn't that poor—it's a lovely place with lots of friendly people. Not the best place for sugar babies, probably, but nothing like the worst place for them. 

In reality, the worst places for sugar babies are:

• Kent (Canterbury in particular)
• Portsmouth
• Cambridge
• South Wales (Cardiff)

Why? Well, because these are the places with the most new sugar babies, according to a study—so in these regions and cities, there are much more potential and existing sugar babies than in other UK regions. And we all know what happens when supply is much greater than demand—in this case, prices always drop.

Pros and cons of dating a sugar mommy in the UK

If you don’t know if you actually should join the world of sugar momma dating (UK) or not, continue reading. Let’s talk about the advantages and disadvantages of such a relationship.

• Relationships with sugar mommas are usually drama free. They don't cause fights or arguments, your emotional energy won't drain constantly with them, and they don't need attention 24/7.
• You’ll get money for it. The average allowance is around £700 per week, and £700 per week is actually the median weekly wage for 30-40 year old full-time workers in the United Kingdom!
• You may get some extra experience. If you think you're an expert in relationships, dating a sugar momma will probably surprise you. These women can tell and show you a lot of things you didn't even think about before.

What about the disadvantages? 

• It’s easy to get attached and you must not get attached in such a relationship. Keeping a clear head might be difficult but you don't want to bond with her more than you've previously discussed and agreed on.
• Social stigma. It’s not like with prostitution, of course, but still, you probably don’t want your friends and family to find out that you have a sugar momma, right? 
• Sugar mommas may have their own insecurities and traumas. Some of them may accuse their partners of cheating, the others may be abusive, etc. 

Not that many cons, though you may face them. Just prepare yourself for some possible outcomes and you will not negatively experience them if they happen. And to minimize the possibility of a negative outcome, check out some tips—they will help you keep your relationship longer and healthier.

Tips for maintaining a relationship with a sugar mama (UK)

• Remember that your appearance is very important. Skincare, gym, teeth whitening, grooming, a healthy diet, all those factors are important. You'll probably get a lot of money, so think about investing in your appearance—that's a worthy investment if you're going to continue dating sugar mommas.
• But don’t forget about communication skills. Typically, sugar mommas don’t just look for a hot guy—they also want that hot guy to be interesting to talk to. So you’ll have to become a good listener and a good speaker, too.
• Set the boundaries. What are you okay with? What are you not okay with? Where are the limits of your relationship? How much time do you want to spend with her? Are you going to be exclusive? All these questions must be answered and all these things must be discussed in advance, as well as your allowance.
• Your first date must be in a public place! Not a dating tip, just an important safety message.
• Be reliable and show her that she can trust you. It’s very important for a sugar mommy (UK) to understand that she can trust you and that you will not share her private information. Privacy and confidentiality are the top priority concerns for them, so you need to manage these concerns and deal with them.
• Understand the specifics. Sugar relationships don’t have a future—in the absolute majority of cases, it doesn’t lead anywhere and it just ends in 3-5 months (according to some studies, 70% of sugar relationships end within 5 months). Don’t expect anything serious and long-term, that’s not why you’re here.

Conclusion

Getting a sugar mommy (UK) is definitely a good idea if you’re looking for a drama-free relationship with a good-looking, successful, and hot mature lady. Of course, there might be some challenges, but in general, pros definitely outweigh the cons. So, don’t waste your time—join the sugar momma dating world right now and find a real mature lady in just a few clicks!